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In search of a M/F bi (curious at least) secure cupl with no BS and no games. Be real. I am a 48yo Poly-sexual (the new Bisexuality) white male. I am widowed, not that that has to do with anything. However, before she passed her and I had an incredible sex life. Role reversal role play, toys, lotions, potions, group, 3sumz, spectating, participating, dominating, submitting and whatever we or friends could cum up with that involved the naked human body. I am all about courtesy, safety, trust, respect and cleanliness. Not one thing is more important than the other yet they ALL are. Getting careless isn't an option. I'm into all the above but my basic description is: Bi white male. 5'9", 168-170lbs., about 5-7lbs over MY ideal weight. FAIR skinned, naturally moderately hairy but keep groomed and smooth for that sexy feeling, both to me and my partner(s). I’m verbally aggressive, oral active (M/F), total bottom (for M/Top. Bottom for F w/strap on. If permitted by the both of you, I'd love toping the woman) I love sex, the naked human body and ALL it has to offer. I'm not too serious and take things pretty much as I see them. I try and enjoy what life gives me. (pretty vague, huh?) Although I'm not too serious, I know when I need to be & I act accordingly. I utilize one of my favorite words after and that’s ADAPT. I can usually adapt to any situation. I don't conform to ANY. Conforming means to follow, obey or otherwise be compliant. Now being submissive in a ROLE play situation is a completely different ballgame.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildOther
Height175 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtBranded, Visible tattoo
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleEnjoyin whatever it is I'm doing & doing it with.

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA woman who is secure with what and who she is. Like myself, she loathes Liars, Cheaters and Stealers. Be HWP and somewhat ATTRACTIVE; (eye of the beholder) When I look at a woman I get different feelings. But the beauty I see is more of how that feeling affects me; an Emotion per-se'. The Beauty that that certain woman must have is the beauty that I see and what I feel when I look at her, know that she is with me unconditionally in all facets life has given and the ones that we'll discover together. So it's not generally or speciflly how she looks as much as it is HOW SHE MAKES ME FEEL. She needs to Be PERFECT (in other words); asking that out of someone is unfair. I'm not asking that she be perfect in the general sense, I'm asking that she just be perfect to me.
Our first dateWHatever it is that we decide it'll be MUTUAL, hence the 'we'. But whereever we are that'll be the place that we should be. What we're doing is exactly what it is we're supposed to be doing